To prepare for Black Friday, start months early and grow your email database first, then segment your customers, pre-advertise before ad prices spike, get your website ready for the traffic surge, and build a plan to win back abandoned carts. The biggest mistake South African stores make is leaving it to the last week. By then your list is small and your ad costs are high. Around 70% of online carts get abandoned, per the Baymard Institute, so the money is won or lost in the build-up and the follow-up, not on the day. This is the full playbook, from V8 Media. We have run R2+ billion in client sales since 2018.
The full episode of our Marketing Fix show sits above. We sat down with Gilbert Kumpukwe to map out how small and medium businesses can prepare for their best Black Friday yet.
Below the video: the moves from the episode, pulled into steps you can run this month.
What this episode of Marketing Fix covers
Black Friday is one of the biggest days of the year for any eCommerce business.
In this episode, Gilbert walks through how to get ready properly. Where to start, how to grow your list, how to use paid ads without burning cash, and how to stop losing sales at checkout.
A lot to cover. We have laid it out step by step below, SA context included.
The short version. Black Friday is not a one-day event. It is a six-week project.
The brands that win started planning while everyone else was still asleep.
How to prepare for Black Friday, in plain words
Most owners think Black Friday is about the discount. It is not.
It is about reach and readiness. Who you can reach on the day, and how ready your store is when they land.
A discount with no audience is a sale nobody sees. A great audience on a slow site is money walking out the door.
So the whole game splits into two jobs. Build the audience before the day. Convert them on the day.
Everything below sits under one of those two jobs. Get both right and Black Friday stops being a gamble.
Start months early and grow your database first
This is the move almost everyone skips. Your database is the one asset you own outright.
Social platforms can change the rules tomorrow. Ad costs can double overnight.
But a list of people who chose to hear from you? That is yours. Nobody can take it.
Gilbert's first point in the episode was blunt. Before anything else, grow your database.
You have two ways to do it. The unpaid way and the paid way.
Smart stores run both.
Why early matters: a list you build in October can be warmed up, segmented and sold to on the day for free. A list you scramble to build in the last week barely has time to open one email.
The unpaid way to grow your list
The unpaid play is about catching the people already visiting your site and giving them a reason to join.
When someone lands on your store, interrupt the browse with something worth stopping for. A pop-up that says "Black Friday early access. Join the list, see the deals first."
Gilbert had a clever one. Add a tab with a live countdown to your Black Friday drop. Hide the products. Only reveal them when the timer hits zero.
That builds anticipation. People come back to check. They tell a friend.
The wait does the selling for you.
Then tap the database you already have. Your past customers are the warmest audience you will ever find.
Reward them for being on the list. A points system works well, where shoppers earn points and trade them for a reward you decide on.
Or run a competition. The winner picks any item off your site for free. Cheap to run, loud on social, brilliant for collecting emails.
The goal is simple. Show your customers something jaw-dropping, and make joining the list the only way to get first dibs.
Segment your customers: loyal, in-betweeners, relapsed
Here is where most stores get lazy. They blast one email to everyone.
That is a fast way to get flagged as spam and tank your open rates. Worse, it ignores the fact that not all customers are the same.
Gilbert splits your database into three groups, and each one needs a different message.
| Customer type | Who they are | What to send them |
|---|---|---|
| Loyal customers | Buy often, weekly or monthly | An exclusive thank-you deal and early access to your Black Friday drop |
| In-betweeners | Buy now and then, every 2 to 4 months | A small extra discount to reactivate them and get them spending again |
| Relapsed customers | Bought once, never came back | A fear-of-missing-out angle: new stock, fresh offers, something that pulls them back |
Rule from the show: never email the relapsed group unless you have a genuinely attractive deal. A boring email to a cold contact just trains them to ignore you.
A tool like Mailchimp makes this easy. You can see who opened your last five campaigns and tag them as your active, loyal crowd.
Segmenting protects your sender reputation too. Email only the people likely to engage, and the inbox providers keep trusting you.
This is the same logic behind a good eCommerce welcome sequence. Right message, right person, right moment.

The paid way: pre-advertise before prices spike
The paid play has one job. Drive more traffic to your site so you can capture more visitors onto your database.
Traffic can come from any platform, but for this one we focus on Facebook and Instagram.
Here is the timing trap nobody warns you about. As Black Friday gets closer, ad prices climb.
Every store piles in. The auction heats up. Your cost per click jumps.
The fix is pre-advertising. Start running campaigns weeks early, while it is still cheap.
Target people interested in deals who also like your product. Not just bargain hunters. Buyers.
That drives traffic to your site early, so you capture new emails before the expensive period even starts.
Then there is the Facebook pixel, the small tracking tool on your site. It lets you retarget people who visited in the last six months or engaged with your page.
These people already know you. They are the cheapest, warmest audience you can run ads to.
Use that data for cross-sells and up-sells too. Instead of selling the same product to the same person again, sell the accessory that goes with it.
Look into Google product catalogue ads and what they can do for an online store. If you want a hand setting up either channel, our Meta ads and Google ads teams do this for SA stores every day. We dig deeper into pacing your spend in how to calculate the perfect Facebook ad budget.
Get your website ready for the traffic surge
You can do everything above perfectly and still lose. How? Your site falls over on the day.
Black Friday sends a wave of visitors at your store all at once. A site built for a normal Tuesday can buckle.
Speak to your hosting provider before the day. Ask plainly: can the site handle a big traffic spike, and what do we need to upgrade?
Then fix the basics that quietly kill sales.
- Run Google's mobile-friendly check. In South Africa most Black Friday shopping happens on a phone, so a clunky mobile site loses you the majority of buyers.
- Improve your load speed. Slow pages bleed sales, and they get worse under heavy traffic.
- Simplify your menu for the season. "New," "Best sellers," and "Deals under R500" beat a cluttered list.
- Do every technical optimisation you can before the rush, not during it.
PayU's South African Black Friday data puts mobile at around two-thirds of peak-season transactions. A phone-first site is not optional anymore. It is where the sale happens.
One more reason speed matters: a fast, profitable store is the whole point. We break down the mindset in how to optimise your online store for profit.
Why people abandon carts, and how to win them back
This is the heartbreak of eCommerce. Someone adds to cart. They reach checkout. Then they vanish.
It happens a lot. The Baymard Institute puts the average online cart abandonment rate at around 70%, after pulling together dozens of studies.
Read that again. Most carts never check out.
So the question is not whether people abandon. It is why, and what you do about it.
The number one reason is extra costs. Baymard found nearly half of shoppers, about 47%, abandon when surprise shipping, taxes or fees show up at checkout.
That points to the single biggest lever: delivery fees. If you offer free delivery, shout about it, especially in your follow-up emails.
Most buying is emotional. People feel "yes," then talk themselves into it with logic. Big-ticket item? The logic voice gets louder.
So write messages that speak to the feeling first. The fear of missing the deal. The relief of finally buying it. The joy of the gift.
Then send the follow-up. Gilbert's tip from the show: send 3 to 4 abandoned-cart emails, not one. A proper sequence is several times more effective than a single nudge.
| Reason for abandonment | The fix |
|---|---|
| Surprise delivery and checkout costs | Be upfront, and push free or flat-rate delivery in your follow-up |
| No trust in the store | Add testimonials and reviews to emails and product pages |
| Limited payment options | Offer cards, EFT, wallets and buy-now-pay-later like PayJustNow or Payflex |
| Decision went cold | Send a 3 to 4 email recovery sequence, not a single reminder |
If you sell from a physical shop too, add a BOPIS option. That is "Buy Online, Pick-Up In-Store." It dodges the delivery delays that hit hard during the Black Friday rush.
Cart recovery is one of the highest-return jobs in eCommerce. We built a full guide on it: eCommerce abandoned-cart automations.

Build trust so you do not look like a scam
Plenty of South Africans are still nervous about shopping online. A new store with no signals of trust gets a quiet "no thanks."
Kill the doubt before it kills the sale.
Make your contact number and email easy to find. A reachable business looks safe. A hidden one looks dodgy.
Add a chatbot or live chat. People will have questions on the day, and an instant answer saves a sale that would otherwise drift away.
Show payment logos, reviews and a clear returns policy. Each one chips away at the "is this legit?" worry.
South Africans expect options. Nedbank's acquiring platform processed over R3 billion in card settlements on Black Friday 2024 alone. If your checkout takes only one card type, you are leaving money on the table.
Your Black Friday prep timeline
Here is the whole playbook as a rough schedule. Steal it. Adjust it to your store, but do not compress it into the final week.
| When | What to do |
|---|---|
| 8 to 12 weeks out | Plan the offer. Start growing your database with pop-ups, competitions and a countdown tab. |
| 4 to 6 weeks out | Start pre-advertising while ad prices are still low. Build retargeting audiences with the pixel. |
| 2 to 3 weeks out | Segment your list into loyal, in-betweeners and relapsed. Write the emails for each. |
| 1 to 2 weeks out | Stress-test the website. Check mobile, speed and hosting. Set up abandoned-cart emails. |
| Black Friday week | Send early access to loyal customers. Run the live deals. Watch the data and keep stock moving. |
| After the day | Keep nurturing new customers. Use December and January to sell again, not go quiet. |
One last thing from the episode. Good Black Friday, dead January? Normal. Customers spent their cash and went quiet. That happens every year. Do not confuse a seasonal dip with a broken business.
Black Friday followed the playbook and still flopped? That tells you something. The market might not want the product. Better to know now than keep spending.
How V8 Media puts this to work
We do not run Black Friday to look busy. We run it for profit per Rand spent.
First we build the audience early. Database growth, pop-ups, pre-advertising while ads are cheap, and pixel-based retargeting so the warm crowd is ready.
Then we make the store convert. Fast mobile pages, clear offers, trust signals, and a proper abandoned-cart sequence catching the 70% who would otherwise vanish.
Then we count the real numbers. True cost to acquire a customer, true value of that customer over time, so budget only flows to what actually makes money.
R2+ billion in client sales since 2018. Most of it SA stores. Most of it built on exactly this kind of playbook. See how we help online stores scale at v8mediasa.co.za.
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Frequently asked questions
How early should I start preparing for Black Friday?
Start 8 to 12 weeks out. Black Friday is not a one-day event, it is a six-week project. The early weeks are for planning your offer and growing your email and SMS database with pop-ups, competitions and a countdown to your deals. Around four to six weeks out you start pre-advertising while ad prices are still low and build your retargeting audiences. The final two weeks are for segmenting your list, writing your emails and stress-testing your website. Stores that leave it all to the last week end up with a small audience and expensive ads, which is the most common Black Friday mistake.
How do I grow my email list before Black Friday?
Use both unpaid and paid plays. The unpaid way is catching people already on your site with a pop-up offering early access to your Black Friday deals, plus tactics like a countdown tab that hides the products until the timer ends, a points reward system, or a competition where the winner picks a free item. The paid way is running Facebook and Instagram ads early, while they are still cheap, targeting people interested in deals and in your product, then driving them to a sign-up. Both feed your database, which is the one marketing asset you fully own.
Why do so many people abandon their carts on Black Friday?
Cart abandonment is high all year, with the Baymard Institute putting the average at around 70% across studies. The biggest single reason is extra costs at checkout: Baymard found about 47% of shoppers abandon when surprise shipping, taxes or fees appear. Other common reasons are a lack of trust in the store, too few payment options, and the decision simply going cold. The fixes are being upfront about delivery and pushing free shipping where you can, adding testimonials and clear contact details for trust, offering multiple payment methods, and sending a 3 to 4 email recovery sequence rather than a single reminder.
How do I get my website ready for Black Friday traffic?
Talk to your hosting provider first and confirm the site can handle a big spike in visitors, then upgrade if needed. Run Google's mobile-friendly test, because most South African Black Friday shopping happens on a phone, and improve your page load speed since slow pages lose sales and get worse under heavy traffic. Simplify your menu for the season so deals are easy to find, and do every technical optimisation before the rush rather than during it. A site that falls over on the day wastes all the audience-building work you did in the weeks before.
Should I segment my email list for Black Friday?
Yes. Blasting one email to your whole database hurts your open rates and can get you flagged as spam. Split your list into three groups: loyal customers who buy often, who get an exclusive thank-you deal and early access; in-betweeners who buy every few months, who get a small extra discount to reactivate them; and relapsed customers who bought once, who get a fear-of-missing-out angle with new stock or offers. Only email the relapsed group when you have a genuinely strong deal. A tool like Mailchimp lets you tag people by how recently they engaged so you send the right message to the right group.
What is BOPIS and should my store offer it?
BOPIS stands for "Buy Online, Pick-Up In-Store." Customers order online then collect from your physical shop instead of waiting for delivery. It is worth offering if you have a brick-and-mortar store, because it sidesteps the shipping delays that hit hard during the Black Friday rush, saves the customer the delivery fee that causes so much cart abandonment, and gets the order into their hands faster. It also brings people into your store, where they often buy something extra.
Key takeaways
- Black Friday is a six-week project, not a one-day sale. Start 8 to 12 weeks out and the rest gets easier.
- Grow your email and SMS database first. It is the one asset you own, and a warm list sells for free on the day.
- Use unpaid plays (pop-ups, countdown tabs, competitions, points) and paid plays (early Facebook ads, pixel retargeting) together.
- Segment your list into loyal, in-betweeners and relapsed customers, and send each a different message. Never blast everyone.
- Pre-advertise early, before ad prices spike closer to the day.
- Get the website ready: fast, mobile-friendly, and able to handle a traffic surge. Most SA Black Friday shopping is on a phone.
- Around 70% of carts get abandoned (Baymard), mostly over surprise costs. Push free delivery and send a 3 to 4 email recovery sequence.
- Build trust with visible contact details, reviews, chat support and plenty of payment options.
